This is the third time I have read this book. Obviously, to read it multiple times, I find great value in what Dr. Leman has to say about sex in a marriage relationship. There are a few chapters at the beginning that can he advises those who are engaged to read as well, but the rest of the book he advises only those in a marriage should read....and for good reason! Dr. Leman doesn't hold anything back!
Dr. Leman's treatment of sex throughout this book is respectful, although he is quite frank and his descriptions of certain things leave no question in your mind about what it is he is talking about. He explains what he believes is acceptable (physically speaking) between a man and his wife and why. His treatment of sex is from a biblical viewpoint and is quite refreshing. Today's culture has somewhat "dirtied" sex (at least from my point of view) and Dr. Leman cleaned it up for me. He also challenges what seems to be the cultural norm of men being subjected to whim of their wives when it comes to sexual satisfaction and strongly states the case for mutual submission. Many women use marital intimacy as a "dangling carrot" and Dr. Leman addresses this issue.
He also helps to shed light on the differences between men and women and the way they receive and express love. He gives helpful advice (to both husbands and wives) about how to increase both emotional and physical intimacy and thereby strenghten your marriage.
I find this to be a quick, enjoyable (yet personally challenging) read. In no way do these few short paragraphs sum up all that Dr. Leman has to say in this book, but these are the things that bring me back to this book. Each time I read it, I am inspired to continue to grow as a wife who seeks to love her husband as he ought to be loved. I highly recommend this book for all married (and about to be married) men and women.
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